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Merry Christmas to all…

Hello dear friends – I hope everyone has been enjoying a festive and happy holiday season with friends and family.  The Party House has been a bevy of activity for the past week or so.  I am anxious to get back on my blogging and share my pre-Christmas stories with you all.  Looking forward to sharing all of my crafting activities, baking stories, and how the big day turned out.

We were fortunate to have Travel Man home with us for the entire Christmas week, and even though he was battling a bad cold it was great that he was home to share all of the activities with us.

Here’s a picture of all the wonderful kids in the family.  From left to right we have our grandson, Evan; our sons, Zach & Bryan; our niece, Mary; our daughter, Hilary; our nephew, Jim, and our oldest daughter Naomi. This is the group that makes the Party House rock!!  What a group!

We are still enjoying lots and lots of Christmas cookies, candies, and some leftover ham.  It’s just a delightful, plethora of good eating.  Stay tuned for more Christmas activities from the Party House.  Hope your holidays have been as great as ours!

Finding My Place in My World

You know I was thinking today that I have had the good fortune to be at home taking care of my family full-time for a little over six months now.  I am having such a great time cooking, crafting, blogging, entering Pioneer woman giveaways, reading, spending time with my kids and the grandson, and of course my loving husband.

 My Domestic Goddess status is truly working for me.    It is one of those life experiences that I always wished I could have, and then it just landed in my lap unexpectedly.  For over 25 years I worked full-time,  juggled and struggled  with kids in school, sports, and choir/theatre activities, etc, etc.  When I sit down occasionally to reflect on all of those busy times, because I have a lot of time to do that now,  I just shake my head and say to myself, “How did we do all of that?”.   When I was working full-time and managing the household the stress level could get pretty extreme.

And now my new life status is finding me virtually stress free.  Of course there’s still a little stress here and there, but it’s nothing compared to what used to be there.

For a long, long time I had to work just for survival’s sake.  Now that I have the opportunity to choose whether or not to work my outlook has completely changed.  It has been very eye-opening to have the freedom to just clear my head and be more relaxed about life.

As the New Year approaches I will be putting some new goals into place, and for the first time in a long, long time my goals will revolve around me.  Setting goals, meeting goals, putting a business plan in place to be my own boss,  doing a little part-time work, doing some volunteer work.  The possibilities are endless and the world is my oyster.

 My support group is tremendous.  Travel man is my biggest cheerleader.  Even though he is away about 70-80% of the time he is always cheering for me from wherever he has landed at any given moment.  My parents, and especially my Mom give me tremendous guidance.  And then the rest of the family is a great source of positive reinforcement, and constant sources of never-ending love and hugs.

For me it will be an exciting New Year going forward.  I can’t wait to share my new experiences and adventures with you all.  Have you found your place in your world yet?

Behind the Scenes for the Holidays

Since today is December 1st, and the holidays are right in front of us I felt it would be timely to share some information on how “The Party House”, my house, gets ready for the holidays. 

Since a week or so before Thanksgiving, we have been dusting, and vacuuming and “fall” cleaning getting ready for the holiday season. As I may have shared with you all before our house is the family “Party Pad” as my brother likes to call it.  We host a lot of the family and holiday functions and Travel Man and I totally enjoy being the gathering place for the family fun times.

My daughter, Hilary,helps with the house-cleaning every week.  It’s part of our parental contract- make sure the kids are still contributing to the household even though they’re all in their twenties, and so far it’s working pretty well.

As Hil and I were getting the cleaning in order we came up with a list of pet peeves for some of the dis-order around here.  Maybe some of these things happen in your house too.

1) Please don’t leave your dirty clothes in the bathroom.  We don’t want to pick them up.

2) If you use a Dixie cup to rinse when brushing your teeth for heaven’s sake throw the cup in the trash can!

3) The toothpaste blobs in the sink, have to go.  We don’t want to spend extra time scrubbing them off of the counter and other various places. Yuk.

4) If you take your shoes off somewhere in the house make sure they are pointing North, towards the North pole so Santa will know.   He and his elves are watching you.

5) And repeat number four for your socks.

6) Backpacks and purses are not to cover the flat surfaces in the house, so the furniture is no longer visible. They are for holding your things so put them away.

 7) And finally take care of your own dirty dishes.  If you left it sitting somewhere dirty the elves are not going to pick up after you, and we don’t need any science projects.  Just take care of business.

As we finish up our house prep we just wanted to do a little venting to everyone and share our cleaning challenges so you know that you’re not alone out there.

 What are your household pet peeves?  Did you leave your shoes facing North?

Thanksgiving Feasting and Family

 This year marks the 8th or 9th year that my hubby and I have hosted Thanksgiving dinner for the family.  The Thanksgiving turkey dinner torch was passed to me when my parents retired and started RV-ing  full-time.  In any given year we have 15-20 people around the table, and always for a sit down dinner.  No buffet style serving for Thanksgiving Day.  This is my favorite family day of the year.  No birthdays are being celebrated, no gifts are being exchanged.  This is just a day of family.  This is our family feast right before we toasted with Almond Champagne, and of course pink lemonade for the grandson. 

The menu planning and preparation for the big turkey day were especially fun for me this year.  With my new-found Domestic Goddess status,  I had lots of time to plan the menu, decorate, and recruit the help I needed with dinner.  Now each year what I ALWAYS stress about is the timing of this event.  You ladies or gents who get the feast on the table know what I am talking about.  The turkey’s done on time, the side dishes heated on time, and the gravy tastes good, on time.  Every year I have had the same level of stress as the first year I put this feast together without my amazing Mom.  And every year , so far, the feast has come together, on the table, on time.

All of the girls in the family contributed amazing side dishes. We had spinach bake, sweet potato casserole, creamy mashed potatoes (with real cream cheese), green bean casserole, steamed green beans with bacon, mushrooms and onion, and of course the usual stuffing and gravy.

For the desserts my oldest son, Bryan, baked the pumpkin pies, and we tried a new Pumpkin Cream Pie recipe.  These were amazing.  My brother brought his traditional apple pie.  He’s famous for this pie with our family.  And of course we had some awesome whip cream to dollop on top of the desserts. (Jim claims he makes the best whip cream, but being his older sister I can’t give him too many compliments in one paragraph.  You older sister’s know what I mean.) 

We also had these amazing little turkey’s, created by my brother’s girlfriend,  Elaine.  She made hens and toms.  Very cute and yummy.  Grandson Evan tried to sneak a few extras off of the table for himself.

After the stomachs’ settled from dinner there was Xbox Kinect in the living room, or an intense card game called Phase 10.  I love having the activities for a big crowd.  The only thing we didn’t get a chance to play was the Wii bowling.  We’ll save that tournament for Christmas time and our New Year’s Eve party.

We always miss our long distance family at this time of year.  My sister, Laura and her husband in Montana;  my grandparents in Illinois; and our nephew, Jim,  in San Luis Obispo.  Thank goodness we can hook up on Skype whenever we want too.

We hope that each and every one of you had an amazing family day like we did.  These are the moments that you hold dear in your heart, and for me personally the traditions that I love to be a part of creating.

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