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How do we get our home projects (ala DIY) completed?

 With Travel Man’s unpredictable schedule at work it is sometimes difficult to get our DIY (do it yourself) projects completed in a timely manner.  Now you may be asking yourselves how do you ever get things done around the house?  There must be a long “honey-do” list for Travel Man!  We try really hard to keep the “honey do’s” to a minimum, but when there’s a project to complete that requires Travel Man’s experience and muscle here’s what we do.

Our latest endeavor is to get our entryway flooring replaced.  Now, the first phase of this project is a story all on its own.  You know how you get a plan together for demolition, begin to execute that plan, and then realize you need a plan B?  Well that’s what happened on this project.

With my Domestic Goddess status in full swing,  I told Travel Man I had plenty of time to try to take out the tile.  The key word here was “try”.  I had a big chisel, hammer, and a multi-function, variable speed tool to begin my project.  I was using the multi-function tool to get the grout out-of-the-way, and then the chisel and hammer to get up and under the tile to get it removed.  Seemed like a fairly simple task.  I can do this, is what I told myself.  Well,  after the demo of the first two tiles, I was done.  This was a project that was going to kick me in the bootie, and I had to ask Travel Man, “What’s plan B?”  I much prefer sticking to the painting and decorating.

Plan B was to purchase a hammer drill, and get under the tile to bust it out of there. There was so much mastic under the tile, it was like the previous tile master in this house used all the mastic he could muster for this project.  So, the demolition for this project now falls in Travel Man’s lap.  Remember I was on jury duty for most of the month of March, so when Travel Man had a few days off he was working on the  tile removal.  This was a very, very labor intensive undertaking.  It also created more dust in the house than I have seen in a long, long time.  Dust here, dust there, dust everywhere!

Here’s a few pics of the project so far, and my dusty hubby from the process!!  It was quite an undertaking, and took about 3 half days of removing the tile and then I volunteered to get all of the old grout/mastic dollops off of the floor.  Now we have a nice smooth concrete pad that we are looking at putting some laminate flooring down on.  That’s our next phase,  flooring purchase and installation.  So once we ( or should I say I) decide on the flooring,  we will wait for a weekend when travel man is home to get it installed.

In the meantime I will be painting the entryway, and hopefully trying out some wall texturing.  More on that project later this month.

If you have a DIY project to complete how do you find the time to work on it from start to finish?  It’s not like the TV shows where rooms are complete in half an hour.  It takes much, much longer…and in our case requires a lot of advanced planning.   Happy DIY-ing everyone!

This Has Been and Interesting Month for Me.

Somewhere on or about March 6th, I reported to the Riverside County courthouse to fulfill  my jury duty summons obligation.  I was just released from my jury duty as of this past Friday afternoon.  What an experience.  This was my very first time to be selected for a jury, and serve on a case.  Now I’m not going to discuss the case or its particulars, but I do want to share my court “experience” with all of you.

I had never stepped into a courtroom until I was in the process of being selected and questioned as a potential juror.  The judge was very particular about letting anyone be dismissed for hardship reasons.  If you were helping your Mom pay the bills she requested that you re-arrange your work schedule.  If you had a Dr. appointment she would flex the court calendar around you.  If you were a Domestic Goddess, like me you were definitely staying.  So my new identity these past few weeks became juror #8.

The process of seating the jury of 12, plus 2 alternates was quite intriguing to me.  The lawyers are basically filling the jury slots like a well orchestrated stage play.  They want the people with specific types of “life experiences”.  I believe the process of the final jury being vetted and seated took a day and a half.

The witness list for this case was quite long, and so we began.  The judge was very concise with her instructions, and made the process very easy to understand.  But I was definitely not prepared for the plethora of information I was about to digest.  After the second or third day of testimony I was asking myself how am I going to remember any specific details of importance.  You are able to take any notes that you need to during the trial, but the notebook never leaves the court room.

The witness testimony is a story all on its’ own.  I had not realized that the witness questioning could bounce back and forth between the lawyers so many times. Direct testimony, cross testimony, re-direct testimony, re-cross testimony.  It’s like watching a tennis match.  That’s when the digestion of the information becomes the most difficult.  Once the witness testimony is complete the lawyers can call rebuttal witnesses, and then they give their closing statements.  Once closing statements are complete the deliberations begin.

The jury is escorted by a sheriff’s deputy to the deliberation room, which is well equipped with comfy chairs, a round table, and bathrooms.  A jury foreman is selected and the deliberations are underway.  A review of the evidence (both physical and witness testimony), a review of the charge and the penal code that applies to the charge.  All of these items are taken into account to determine a verdict.  In our case the jury was hung, and a mistrial was declared.  The lawyers discussed our decision with us after the end of the trial, and whether or not a second trial is held we will never know.

For myself, I know that my civil service, and the time served on the jury is the most rewarding and mind-boggling thing I have experienced in a long time.  But it also reiterates the fact that we live a country full of freedoms, and that we have a unique system of due process.   I told my twenty-somethings that I think each of them should have to serve on a jury.  It gives you a whole new perspective, and more appreciative level of respect for the law and the justice system.  When you receive your next jury summons, try not to say, “ugh”, and  dread your time at the courthouse.  Be appreciative, and know that you are serving the freedoms of your country.

Our Monday Night Dinners

The Party House has been filling up on Monday nights recently when everyone seems to find their way home for dinner.  Because of work and school schedules it is the one night that all the kids are able to land at home for dinner at the same time.  And oh what dinners we have.  With our own kids, and significant others, and sometimes an extra friend or two we can easily have 8 or 9 around the table.   And I have this crazy,  family,  house rule – You are a guest at our table the first three times that you join us.  But on that fourth dinner you are part of the family, and need to just jump in and fend for yourself.  I’m not sure when I started this rule, but is has stuck, and works pretty well.  Plus it makes for good conversation with any newbies at the table.

This is such a great way to re-connect with everyone.  How’s everyone doing?  Anything exciting going on at work or school? Anything else significant going on in your world?  Did you do anything exciting over the weekend?  These are the questions I like to get answers to.  It’s my personal barometer of how everyone is doing.  The kids just enjoy the chat.  Sometimes Travel Man gets into story mode, and starts sharing his travel stories, or stories from his day in the Air Force.  For myself, I like to just absorb it all.  Laugh and joke, and listen, and take it all in.  It’s one of those moments that you know you will cherish in the years to come, because they will not happen as often as they do right now.  So, for the moment I look forward to our Monday night dinners, and relish the moments, and absorb all of the good family times.  The coolest part of all of this is it just kind of happened this way.  Not really any specific plan, just a happening.  One that makes this Mom feel good to the core.

Does your family have any weekly “happenings” that you look forward to?

When Travel Man left today- Guess who appeared?

When Travel Man left today, for Northern California, we had a total Murphy’s moment. Now you all remember good ol Murph.  He appears when you least expect it and usually not with good news.  You all know the old adage, “If something can go wrong it will.”

Tom and I were walking out of the house through the garage to say our goodbyes, and right in front of our big freezer is this huge puddle of water!  Oh no!  And the water was all the way out on the driveway.  So I’m thinking oh no, the freezer died.  I open the freezer, and it’s still going strong,  lights on and the food is frozen.  This is good news.

Then,  I trace the trail of water all the back to the ….. washer!! Grrrrreat…..

There is a little stream of  water coming from the bottom of the door,  on the front of the washer while  it is closed.  Oh no!  My husband cringes because he must get on the road.  He has a six-hour drive ahead of him.  I can tell without even look at my Travel Man that he is thinking, I should be able to check this out.  One of the perils of being a road warrior.  But I know he needs to leave.  We decide to call for service, that’s my department, and put some out-of-order tape on the washer. (This will throw the twenty something’s off course a little.)

I got an appointment and the washer will get fixed on Saturday morning.  Isn’t it funny how when things breakdown around the house it is always at absolutely the wrong time.  And as a matter of fact is there ever a right time?  So, c’est la vie, life goes on and I have a legitimate excuse not to do ANY laundry for a few days!!  And besides my laundry was already done.  Lucky me.

I think I have an obsession with coffee

Last week when I was unloading the dishwasher I had a freak kitchen accident.  Have no fear no one was hurt, except for my coffee pot.  I was putting away this small glass bowl, it slipped out of my hands, and bounced off of the carafe of the coffee maker.  The bowl survived, but the coffee carafe had a gaping hole in it.  After cleaning up the mess I went on my merry way doing other things around the house.  (This happened at dinner time.)

The next morning I wanted my cup of coffee.  I think I became a little grouchy at this point, very unlike me.  Then I foraged in the kitchen and found some Taster’s Choice samples and got a cup of coffee. Yay!  I felt much better.  Over the weekend we did not rush out to buy a new coffee pot, and I had a few Taster’s Choice samples to use up.  They were not as good as the “real thing”, but they would suffice.  Travel Man and I were going places and working on a house project over the weekend, I did not want to take time out to shop for a coffee pot.

Then this morning my wonderful,  Travel Man went to the store for a few things and came home with a new coffee carafe.  Oh, and he also bought some additional Taster’s choice as a back-up just in case the carafe did not work out.  I realized just a few minutes ago I think I’m obsessed with having my first cup of coffee in the morning.  This was quite an aha moment for me.  Now mind you I don’t drink coffee all day, just first thing in the morning.  It’s my morning routine.  And when my morning routine was off,  I felt off-balance all day long.

So to start my week off right I am sitting here enjoying my morning coffee.  Life is good when everything in my world is in balance.

 

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